
Originally Posted by
Sparta
Fantastic question, I'm happy you brought it up.
Forgive me, but I have to rant first before I can answer your question directly. In my opinion, we should allow insults, but we should not allow immature people to have access. What that would do is allow people who contribute substance to tell someone off once in a while, but that random and probably rare insult wouldn't change the nature of the board.
If it were entirely up to me, you could say things like "sparta, I'm tired of you repeating the same party line all the time, you're ignorant, and you're also an asshole". Then, if you were of a certain maturity level, and I was of the same level, we'd move past that and focus on the reasons why we're here.
Instead what we get are emotionally undeveloped people who harp and focus on crude forms of communication, you tell them whatfor one time and "it's on". Or they want to tell you whatfor all the time without actually bringing up any points worth discussing.
You can easily recognise these people because on one day they'll demand a new rule to govern a behavior, or complain about a behavori, and then on the next day they'll take up that same exact behavior.
So, if it were up to me this question wouldn't need to be asked in the first place. Since it does need to be asked, then I suppose the answer is hand out reds in a fashion that makes you feel good about your conduct. If you refrain from insulting members with a red then it's all good. Personally I find that if I don't hand out reds for any reason whatsoever, I feel more growed up than the person I wanted to red, really, really, bad.
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